Memoirs of a Single Dad is more than just dads. We love mommies around here too. Below is a guest post from a new contributor here at MoaSD. Give her a warm welcome and leave a comment below. Share your story or comment on hers!
My single parenthood began when I was 4 months pregnant. Yeah, I know, right?
I had found out my “baby daddy” was cheating on me and driving other hoes around in my car!! Yeah, I was pissed, so I eventually found out where he was and it was at her house… How did I react? How would you have reacted?
I admit I drove over there like a bat outta hell and pulled up and sure enough he was sitting outside just ‘chillin’. He noticed it was me and came running out to the car. I told him, “don’t ever call me or try to contact me in any way until the baby is born”. He replies with, “I’m gonna take care of my baby!” I admit I’m pissed. Actually, I’m fuming and I say I’d have his trash outta my house and moved in to his mommas house (where he belongs!) within a half hour.
Bet your ass I didnt waste any time and I got one huge box, THREW everything into the box, taped it shut and dropped it off at his mom’s house for him. Believe it or not (I’m sure you do), I never heard from him again until I called and told him our son was born. He suprisingly did come to the hospital to see him, but thats about it!
My son is almost 6 years old and he has seen his biological father/sperm donor, maybe 10 times in those 6 years. He only calls on Christmas, Father’s Day and his birthday if he remembers.
Sure, he is a scum and useless to me but that doesn’t stop me from feeling bad for him and for my son. My son deserves better and there are WAY too many guys like him out there. I definately think this is the perfect definition of a WORTHLESS BABY DADDY.
What do you think? Do you have a worthless baby daddy story, too? Share yours anonymously in the comments below if you’d like.
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I had a “worthless” mom to my boys – largely not her fault due to illness – but I searched and found a wonderful step-mom for them. They are now blessed with a loving mother. Parenthood has NOTHING to do with who made the baby and EVERYTHING to do with who raises him or her!
Hello, my name is Charlotte and I am a single mom to 2 wonderful children ages 9 and 8. I have been a single mom for a little over 5 years. I was married to my childrens’ father but got a divorce due to domestic abuse and adultery within the marriage. I am primarily responsible for raising my children, though they do spend a lot of time with their father. About two months ago, I began writing about my experiences in my blog http://momonthegrind.blogspot.com with the hopes of inspiring other women in similar situations to know there is life after domestic abuse and divorce!
Hi Charlotte – thanks for stopping by and taking the time to leave a comment!