Like many, Father’s Day and its associated meaning has changed for me over the years. As we progress through our lives, we take on different roles.
When I was younger, Father’s Day was a time for giving my dad ties, dress shirts or belts and reminding him that we appreciated everything he was doing to provide for our family. He worked hard, every day, and we did what we could to show our appreciation.
Then, one day in 2002, Father’s Day took on a whole new meaning for me when I became a father myself. Suddenly, my dad was “Grandpa” and I was now the pending recipient of the obligatory gifts on my special day. But it wasn’t just about the gifts for me, obviously. It was more than the changing of the guard as well. It was a right of passage, of sorts. I went from being the son to being the father. I went from celebrating to being celebrated, all in a matter of moments.
Father’s Day means a lot to me, especially now that I’ve since divorced and I don’t get to spend every day with my son. I try not to take the time we spend for granted and any such celebration means just a little bit more to me than it would have otherwise.
In a round-about sort of way, it also makes me appreciate all that my dad did for us as well. Having been a dad now for nearly ten years, I know how difficult it can be at times, how rewarding it can be and how much parents really bear the brunt of life so that their kids can just be kids.
What does Father’s Day mean to you, either as a parent or as a child? Has your father been present in your life and been the father figure you’ve needed? What would you do differently? What would you do the same? If you’re a father, what does the day mean to you? Do you take time to reflect on being a father? Do you feel appreciated? What would you do differently or the same?
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Father’s Day means spending quality time with my dad, and showing him how important he is to me. But I think we should all make the habit of expressing this more than just once a year. Dad is important!
Father’s Day brings back a load of memories for me. Grilling burgers, flying kites, riding bikes… Dad really was the best friend I\’ve ever had. I\’m thankful I have him in my life, and Father\’s Day is always time for the two of us, where we go back to when I was a kid and he was my hero and nothing could change that.
My dad means the world to me so when I lost him early this year, I was very much depressed thinking about how father’s day or moreover life would be like without him. Thanks for this inspiring post, may we always be reminded to be the best daughters and sons we can be.
Fathers’ Day is truly a very special day. It’s a great day to celebrate the existence of the good men in our lives whom we call Daddy, Father, or Dad. Though we should always appreciate our father each and every day, it’s nice to set aside a special day that’s really meant for them alone. Use it well and don’t forget to say “thank you” for the love and care all these years.
Hey Daniel
Its a lovely post. I generally feel we don’t need a specific day to express our feelings to our father or any loved one for that matter. But yes, at the same time these days gives us a special occasion to celebrate. I have always loved this day and don’t forget to present wit something special ever year. Hope you had a great day with you dad and your son. Cheers!!
Father’s day is an opportunity to thank our father for his unconditional love and steadfast devotion . Since its origin Father’s day has undoubtedly gained momentum in years and is a touching way to communicate thanks to our father .
Wish you a great Father’s day Daniel.
Nice share.
Fathers Day means I get to say thank you and make a fuss of someone who never wants a fuss or ever seeks attention. It’s my way of letting him know that no matter how much he doesn’t like a hug most days of the year on Fathers Day he has to have one and live with it!
Hope you have a great fathers day Daniel.
All the best
Grace