You’ll know if he’s the right guy for you if adds to your shine.
This is the question that many single women ask themselves. Sure, it’s fun to date around and meet different people. But there will come a time when we’ll want to settle down. So how can we know if we have found “The One?”
There are four main signs if you have found your guy:
He helps you become a better person.
We are all stars in our own right. Our responsibility is to find the talents and skills that can make us shine brightest and to polish them. There are people who will take away your shine. These are the negative people who will only pull you back. You’ll know if he’s the right guy for you if adds to your shine. If you can become a better person because of him then there’s a good chance that you have found your match.
His personality complements yours.
You are a unique being. There is no other person in this world exactly like you. You’ll know if you’ve found the person you are meant to be with when he complements your personality. His strengths are your weaknesses. Your weaknesses are his strengths.
He is willing to brave out the storms of life with you.
Marriage is supposed to be for better or for worse. But according to statistics, most couple’s are only willing to stick it out during the good times. When the going gets tough they call their lawyer and file for divorce. You’ll know if you have found your guy when he is willing to stick to you for better or for worse. If he is willing to fight for you and to fight with you. Commitment is vital in a relationship. Without commitment, no relationship can ever hope to last.
It just feels right.
I know that feelings are very intangible. But I believe that you’ll know when you’ve met your match because it feels right. You can’t explain it. You may not understand it. But it’s a feeling you just have. When it comes to selecting your mate, go with your gut.
No relationship is perfect. And there is no “happily ever after” because all relationships are an ongoing process. If you want to make it work, you have to do your part. But first, start by selecting the right partner.